Inspiration is the best way to motivate people. I remember this day in high school, a girl a few years younger than I came up to me and told me how I inspired her. She said that she wore the big flower in her hair because she liked how I did out of the ordinary things. That is the best way to change people. Don't use any words and by example, show what is good and if done over and over again, people get ideas and are inspired to create their own thing.
Denim shirt: Wet Seal. Velvet dress: thrifted. Plaid dress: gifted. Belts: garage sale. Flats: OldNavy.